WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.530 --> 00:00:04.540 Well, I'm in a stable relationship, 2 00:00:04.540 --> 00:00:06.440 a monogamous relationship with my partner now, 3 00:00:06.440 --> 00:00:09.210 so we talk about you know, 4 00:00:09.210 --> 00:00:11.760 what are safe behaviors for us to engage in, 5 00:00:11.760 --> 00:00:15.190 what we should be engaging in, 6 00:00:15.190 --> 00:00:18.734 and we know what the limits are 7 00:00:18.734 --> 00:00:21.173 for our sexual activity. 8 00:00:22.500 --> 00:00:24.290 He and I, we talk about it 9 00:00:25.300 --> 00:00:26.610 in those contexts, you know, 10 00:00:26.610 --> 00:00:29.710 so you know, condom usage, 11 00:00:29.710 --> 00:00:31.960 you know, toys, what do you do with those 12 00:00:31.960 --> 00:00:33.283 and that kind of thing so.