WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.660 --> 00:00:04.290 The most important thing that I want people to hear 2 00:00:05.930 --> 00:00:08.640 is that how often it is 3 00:00:08.640 --> 00:00:11.763 that we discriminate against people without knowing. 4 00:00:12.960 --> 00:00:14.970 We don't even know what our biases are 5 00:00:16.710 --> 00:00:18.560 until we're faced with the situation 6 00:00:18.560 --> 00:00:21.073 of being on the other side of the fence. 7 00:00:23.460 --> 00:00:25.480 I spoke at Southern University 8 00:00:26.470 --> 00:00:30.020 to a graduate class in public policy. 9 00:00:30.020 --> 00:00:32.300 There was a young man there. 10 00:00:32.300 --> 00:00:33.533 His name is Jacob. 11 00:00:34.520 --> 00:00:35.500 And Jacob 12 00:00:37.640 --> 00:00:40.883 had never been around anybody HIV positive. 13 00:00:42.020 --> 00:00:43.253 And when I spoke, 14 00:00:44.110 --> 00:00:48.740 Jacob participated in an event 15 00:00:48.740 --> 00:00:50.233 after hearing me speak. 16 00:00:51.290 --> 00:00:53.633 And I invited him to be a part of the forum. 17 00:00:54.780 --> 00:00:56.700 When he spoke, 18 00:00:56.700 --> 00:00:59.520 and he spoke about how he had no idea 19 00:00:59.520 --> 00:01:03.010 how prejudiced and biased he was 20 00:01:03.010 --> 00:01:06.150 against people living with HIV and AIDS 21 00:01:06.150 --> 00:01:10.680 and how he had had such a mental paradigm shift 22 00:01:10.680 --> 00:01:13.150 in 30 minutes (laughs) 23 00:01:13.150 --> 00:01:17.410 that he went home and got on the computer 24 00:01:17.410 --> 00:01:18.950 to learn all he could about it 25 00:01:20.670 --> 00:01:22.770 and decided that he wanted to work with me 26 00:01:23.650 --> 00:01:25.330 because it was so important for him 27 00:01:25.330 --> 00:01:30.120 to erase the biases from others that he had 28 00:01:30.120 --> 00:01:31.720 that he didn't even know he had. 29 00:01:33.460 --> 00:01:34.520 I think it's important 30 00:01:34.520 --> 00:01:36.783 for each of us to do some self-inventory, 31 00:01:37.750 --> 00:01:40.653 to look within ourselves and see where our biases lie, 32 00:01:41.550 --> 00:01:44.840 where our discrimination 33 00:01:47.020 --> 00:01:52.020 rises and what that does to us as a people, 34 00:01:52.740 --> 00:01:54.220 as an individual, 35 00:01:54.220 --> 00:01:57.040 how it affects us on the inside 36 00:01:58.160 --> 00:02:03.140 and what pains we inflict on others unknowingly. 37 00:02:03.140 --> 00:02:05.500 That is the one thing I would have to say 38 00:02:05.500 --> 00:02:08.023 if I could say something to anybody out there. 39 00:02:10.220 --> 00:02:14.050 Search yourself, do some self-inventory, 40 00:02:14.050 --> 00:02:17.913 and try walking in another man's shoes without judgment.