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<v ->Advice to someone who's newly diagnosed?</v>

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Don't withdrawal.

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Don't withdrawal, and don't...

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And this is very hard to say, because we've all done it.

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Those of us who are infected.

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But try not to beat yourself up too much.

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We got this thing,

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doing a very human thing.

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Most people,

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most people,

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gay, straight, woman, man, in between,

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have had unsafe sex.

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So it's nothing to nail yourself to the cross for.

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And reach out for help,

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immediately.

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Find something to

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latch on to

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that will be a source of strength, source of inspiration,

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a source of help.

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If it's at the church, fine.

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If it's family, fine.

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If it's friends,

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what ever it is.

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Walk towards the help and try not to be ashamed of yourself.

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I mean that's a lot to ask from someone.

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But that's really important.

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'Cause you harmed yourself,

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at the end of the day.

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And if you harmed somebody else,

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chances are you didn't mean to do it.

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So try not to beat yourself up too much.